Graduation is supposed to feel exciting. For a long time, I pictured it that way. My cap in the air, big smile, and a clear five-year plan laid out perfectly. But the closer it gets, the more I realize something no one really talks about: sometimes graduation feels overwhelming before it feels exciting. There is so much pressure to have everything figured out. What city are you moving to? What job are you taking? Are you staying or leaving? Are you “on track”? Somehow, by 22,